Originally Posted by Baby Boy Free theme, yes, because like I told one person, it wouldn't make sense in developing a theme and then the blog fails. Once it starts growing, I'll build a custom theme.

You run a 'money making' blog, yet you don't seem to understand the risk involved in any business venture.

As said above, I think you should start over.
New domain ($8 is hardly going to break the bank), a less 'whored' theme, and proof-read your posts.

Originally Posted by Sam Granger Well, there were quite a few dating sites and myspace type sites floating the net before they arrived!

PlentyOfFish was the first ever completely free dating site.