Abortion is so wrong.. I'm sorry but if you do it, you're pathetic.

No Glove, No Love.
Wrap your willy, don't be silly.

You need to man up and take care of her and the kid, definitely get both sides of the family involved, and if you are in a situation where with all the help and love around you, that you still cant take care of it and her. Whether it be physically, emotionally, or materially, put the baby for adoption.