I really don't think it looks that bad though. However, I can agree with the others, it's more of a 90's look though. Quick Marty, let's get into the time machine and go ahead 10 to 20 years!
A lot of the guys are just blunt about their opinions and such, it's not a bad thing though. Just take it as "helping you" and act on their suggestions / opinions...
Heck, I had a few I started, and Adam (enigma) bluntly told me to delete it off the computer completely and start something else... LOL!