Hey, the problem is the entire site doesn't have a focus, it doesn't have one particular colour scheme running thoughout. Most sites will choose 1-2 colours and then play around with various shades, on talkfreelance we have just blue and green and then lighter variations which creates a nice environment

Looking at your design I can see, greys, reds, oranges, pinks, purples etc. Too many colours and too many colours that clash with each other. I think your main problem is the header image though, it totally offsets the rest of the design. You could try changing the buttons "What's new!" and "News" etc to a purple shade to match the header background......and then change the "Gallery update" bit as well.