This is why I dont go with small or cheap hosts, as much as I may like the people I will not jeopardize my websites functionality so that their business can do better. I do business with a large host who's price isn't the lowest by any means, but the support is great and the servers are good. You get what you pay for no matter where you go, I've been with a small host called
www.bihira.com, they SUCKED.
If anyone wants to know the host I use, PM me and I will give it to you.