Thread: Having a kid
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12-14-2007, 07:20 PM
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I'm glad things are well now. But you need to make some plans as to how it's gonna work in the long term. That's great your girlfriend is moving in, but you are going to have to get out on your own for your's and your parents' sake. Take the help you can, but you need to learn to deal with this on your own as a man. You will be a dad now, don't take that lightly.

As far as the other suggestions, wow, as a mom I was utterly disgusted by the suggestion to abort the kid. If you don't have the cahonas to raise a kid, then keep it in your pants. It takes two, but at least be responsible when it comes to the consequences. My $0.02.