Ok guys i was surfing the net and i saw this great and cheap chat system so i would like to share this with freelancers http://www.tufat.com/script2.htm Press on demo to see the chat.. then type any user/pw then tell me wut u think its only 5$ (only one payment) and it has all the features that you are wanting to have! good luck!
im glad you guys liked it ! the only thing i dont like about it is that it eats up bandwidth becuase you are going to host it not them. But still flash chat for 5$ lol ..