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11-22-2007, 03:16 AM
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Get rid of the child.

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Think his parents killed him? No replies

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Don't look at abortion for the answer. If you do abortion then it may cause health problems to your girlfriend. The best thing I think you should do is have it set for adoption. You both are still young and need to go to college and get a actual job. But you should tell your father now or so.

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Originally Posted by Adam Scoville View Post
Well, I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend is 3 months pregnant. I'm joyed by this, but at the same time I'm not sure how I'm going to break this to my parents. They can be understanding about some things, but my dad is one of those old timer, strict fathers and the fact that I'm only 17 (I'll be 18 by the time it's born) may cause me alot of problems.

Do any of you have any suggestions or anything? Have any of you had this situation?
Grow some balls, take responsibility. If you are whining about how to tell your parents, you clearly aren't ready to be a dad. There are plenty of options, none of which should be rushed into. Abortion is fraught with psychological issues as is adoption but -all options- should be considered. If you are really happy as you say, then I'd suspect you want the best for your child, and, given your age, adoption may very well be best. There are plenty of childless couples who would love to have the opportunity to be good parents.

To the previous posters who don't have kids, stfu until you do.

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Sweet. Good luck, I hope for the best.

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Originally Posted by Blue Ire View Post
Grow some balls, take responsibility.
I found this ironic..

11-22-2007, 04:02 AM
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If you choose abortion, it should be done within the first trimester.
Shes already 3 months in; think fast.

11-22-2007, 04:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Blue Ire View Post
To the previous posters who don't have kids, stfu until you do.
Sorry mate, I don't want kids. My response was based around a personal opinion, and I think other peoples were.

If you're ready for a child then awesome, congratulations man. I think people see the age you are and think "god daym that's young!". If you want to make something work, it'll work.

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Congratulations buddy. My fiance is also pregnant; she's 5 months now.

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Hey,

I dont think you should abort, i think its a totally wrong process, your killing a potential kid who could have an awesome life and your takign that away from him... If you go through with it i would be sick to my stomach knowing of what you had done.... Seriously though, i say put it up for adoption or something... Next time wear a condom buddy.... :S

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